Look at our society! Just look at it..talking to kids,being friends instead of parents, time out & safe spaces is the problem 100%...as a child you screw up & take a beating you remember and you don't make those mistakes again ever...you go to time out you laugh and say these idiots, I can get away with anything
Not sure why people think it’s white culture to talk to parents like that but as a white person we were so abused as kids they could have been arrested. One out of line comment or tone got you a throw across the room or a face full of hands
Yes sir 100% accurate born in 1962 and beautiful Belleville New Jersey I lived in Bloomfield New Jersey most of my life I was one of the kids that got backhanded by my dad a former police officer when I did bad it was real ugly if I pulled that s*** about not eating dinner again I would have got five across the eye or maybe across the jaw plate of food would have been thrown towards the kitchen garbage however I would have been sent to bed with no food I have also seen in my life kids smacked right in the store I have also seen kids lifted off the ground by their hair at parents scolding them...... Looking back however still to this very day I finish everything on my plate and cannot waste food. 😎😁👍👍
"Kid was the devil cause his dad beat him "this type of bulshit exist only in 2022 ..🤣🤣🤣 when my father used to say "I made you I kill you" I wasn't a devil . Just for a small grade..used to shit my pants and sit in the corner of the room on nut shells .. ya American idiots have no idea what REAL punishment is .. 🤣🤣 Come to Romania country side and walk down a country side road for 20 minutes.. I bet ya see at least one parent slaps a kid for little to nothing reasons... those little Villages that still live in 80s
Ya blame ya parents for everything as if you don’t decide your own life, if you know doing a certain thing isn’t right and you’ll get beat for it. Why even do it? You don’t have to be smart but have simple manners and common sense but nowadays that just isn’t a thing. Being wise is simply knowing right from wrong and it’s pretty easy to tell
Or he had a permissive mother who constantly got in the way of disciplining this child?"
Mothers who a are permissive are also abusing their children. I've seen kids who grew up in nice families turn to drugs and thuggin' all because their mothers were permissive and the father is either a pussy or more likely scared of the legal consequences of interfering. As she could ruin his life with one phone call if he questioned her (I've see that once in my life. Poor guy)
Mothers also beat their kids at a higher rate than fathers. Neither is good but I'm tired of men getting all the blame.
I got ass whoopings and I never became a criminal. I'm quite successful in my own right.
Because I had fucking discipline in my life. I was also made to do unpaid chores as that was the right thing to do. We all had things we did, our own lists as it were and we as a family were responsible for our lists.
That's also discipline.
Another form of discipline.. Was I started moving lawns at 12. My dad gave me his old mower, the first tune up and the first tank of gas.
However, from then on parts and gas were my responsibility. He'd help with repairs and as time went by he taught me more about maintenance.
What it taught me is the value of a dollar. That if you have your business. Then you need to understand that you nee to spend money to make money.
There's so much more to discipline other than ass whoopings. An ass whooping is just the attention grabber. To show that there are consequences to actions but the follow up and reasoning behind it is what's lacking in most cases.
The problem here is thst discipline if any kind is seen as abuse.
Beeing a devil dosnt have NOTHING to so with beating the children. That kid was good when around his parents but went out and did shit because he could. I was beaten by my parents when i was a idiot sooo. You eather teach them a leason or keep beating them just because. There is a difference between slap->"get up you son of a b" and slap->now you see patrick you got fucked because you did this this and that, and if you do it again you gonna get 2 slaps next time and time after that it will be 3 times untill you dont learn to not do the shit i tolled you today"
The reason adolescents are running around doing mass killings is because they were never disciplined. I don't agree with physical abuse, but smacking or hitting your kid when they're out of line is necessary to raise a stable individual.
Ask Indian kids, I used to get hit like crazy, with hands, stick, rods and with whatever he could find, once it was so crazy that I passed out. Damn those times were horrible. And i wasn't even a devil kid. That's Indian parents for you.
I was beat physcially and mentally by my family and i was the only male in the family full of feminist, im older now and dont go around them and even stop my children from spending time with them since my cousin ella spent time now she a dumb feminist like them that just complain about men all day long but dont care to look at their own actions
There is a difference between discipline and abuse. I was disciplined by my mom when I did wrong. She didn't whoop me for every little thing but when I got in big trouble I got the belt or whatever and when I was a kid I didn't appreciate it but as an adult I definitely do. The problem today is people think every little thing is abuse. When your parents discipline you physically and explain why they did it you grow up understand certain things in life about respect, structure and actions having consequences.
I feel bad for parent with bad ass kids... what to you do as a parent... people love to say it's because they gets beatings. Most of these kids are bad and beatings was the only things left to do or leave them to criminality.
It's about knowing how hard to hit. As the kid enters another weight division the hits get harder. With correct explanation and proper technique, you won't need to hit them forever....if you do, go for the knockout
As an indian i must say this is accurate in here..i mean in most of the places wxcept america 🤣.....thats why kids in america are more f up than rest of the world....americans need to teach their kids the way they learn